\u91d1\u66dc\u65e5\u306e\u8aad\u66f8You are not listening \u306f15\u7ae0\uff08What words conceal and silences reveal)\u300116\u7ae0(The morality of listening – why gossip is good for you)\u3067\u3059\u3002
\n15\u7ae0\u306f\u5927\u304d\u306a\u5bb6\u5177\u5c4b\u306e\u30c8\u30c3\u30d7\u30bb\u30fc\u30eb\u30b9\u30de\u30f3\u306e\u8a71\u304b\u3089\u59cb\u307e\u3063\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002\u5ba2\u306e\u8a71\u3092\u826f\u304f\u8074\u304f\u3053\u3068\u3001\u5ba2\u304c\u9ed9\u3063\u3066\u8003\u3048\u3066\u3044\u308b\u3068\u304d\u306f\u4f55\u3082\u8a00\u308f\u306a\u3044\u3067\u3044\u308b\u3053\u3068\u3001\u304c\u58f2\u308a\u4e0a\u3052\u306e\u79d8\u8a23\u3068\u306e\u3053\u3068\u3067\u3059\u3002\u305d\u308c\u304b\u3089\u6b27\u7c73\u3068\u65e5\u672c\u3067\u4f1a\u8a71\u306e\u969b\u306b\u8010\u3048\u3089\u308c\u308b\u6c88\u9ed9\u306e\u6642\u9593\u304c\u9055\u3046\uff08\u65e5\u672c\u306f8.2\u79d2\u3001\u30a2\u30e1\u30ea\u30ab\u306f4.6\u79d2\uff09\u3068\u304b\u3001\u30d5\u30a3\u30f3\u30e9\u30f3\u30c9\u306f\u3053\u306e\u70b9\u3067\u65e5\u672c\u306b\u4f3c\u3066\u3044\u308b\u306a\u3069\u306e\u8a18\u8ff0\u304c\u3042\u308a\u307e\u3059\u3002In America we say, “The squeaky wheel gets the grease”, while in Japan, “The silent man is the best to listen to.”\u3068\u3044\u3046\u3053\u3068\u3067\u3059\u3002\u3000\u3000
\nhttps:\/\/www.quotery.com\/quotes\/silent-man-best-listen
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\n16\u7ae0\u306f\u3001\u5642\u8a71\u3068\u5f8c\u6094\u306b\u3064\u3044\u3066\u8a9e\u3063\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002\u5642\u8a71\u304c\u8a31\u3055\u308c\u308b\u96c6\u56e3\u306f\u4ed5\u4e8b\u306e\u52b9\u7387\u304c\u3088\u3044\u3068\u3044\u3046\u8abf\u67fb\u7d50\u679c\u304c\u51fa\u3066\u3044\u308b\u305d\u3046\u3067\u3059\u3002\u7406\u7531\u306f\u5642\u8a71\u304c\u4f1d\u308f\u3063\u3066\u304f\u308b\u3068\u672c\u4eba\u304c\u884c\u52d5\u3092\u4fee\u6b63\u3059\u308b\u305f\u3081\u3067\u3001\u305d\u308c\u306f\u5642\u8a71\u304c\u771f\u5b9f\u3067\u306a\u3044\u5834\u5408\u3082\u5f53\u3066\u306f\u307e\u308b\u3068\u306e\u3053\u3068\u3002\u9762\u767d\u3044\u3067\u3059\u306d\u3002\u805e\u3044\u3066\u5f8c\u6094\u3059\u308b\u3088\u308a\u3082\u805e\u304b\u306a\u3044\u3067\u5f8c\u6094\u3059\u308b\u3053\u3068\u306e\u65b9\u304c\u591a\u3044\u3001\u53e3\u304c\u6ed1\u3063\u3066\u5f8c\u6094\u3059\u308b\u3053\u3068\u3082\u591a\u3044\u3068\u8a00\u3063\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002\u307e\u305f\u3001\u5f8c\u6094\u306f\u611b\u306b\u6b21\u3050\u3042\u308a\u3075\u308c\u305f\u611f\u60c5\u3067\u3001\u4e8c\u3064\u306f\u5f37\u3044\u95a2\u4fc2\u304c\u3042\u308b\u3001\u306a\u305c\u306a\u3089\u611b\u3059\u308b\u5bfe\u8c61\u3092\u306a\u3044\u304c\u3057\u308d\u306b\u3059\u308b\u3053\u3068\u304c\u5f8c\u6094\u306e\u539f\u56e0\u3060\u304b\u3089\u3001\u3068\u3044\u3046\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u8005\u306e\u8aac\u3092\u7d39\u4ecb\u3057\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002\u3053\u308c\u306f\u306a\u308b\u307b\u3069\u3001\u3068\u601d\u3044\u307e\u3057\u305f\u3002<\/p>\n
\u82f1\u8a9e\u306f\u672c\u6587\u304b\u3089\u62fe\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002
\nmorality \u9053\u5fb3\u6027
\nmolarity \u30e2\u30eb\u6fc3\u5ea6
\nsqueaky \u30ad\u30fc\u30ad\u30fc\u97f3\u3092\u51fa\u3059
\nwheel \u8eca\u8f2a
\ngrease \u30b0\u30ea\u30fc\u30b9\u3000\u7c98\u6027\u306e\u9ad8\u3044\u6a5f\u68b0\u6f64\u6ed1\u6cb9
\nconceal \u96a0\u3059\u3000<-> reveal \u660e\u3089\u304b\u306b\u3059\u308b
\ninadvertently \u3046\u304b\u3064\u306b\u3082\u3001\u610f\u56f3\uff08\u3044\u3068\uff09\u305b\u305a\u306b \u30a4\u30f3\u300c\u30a2\u300d\u30c9\u30f4\u30a1\u30fc\u30c6\u30f3\u30c8\u308a\u30fc
\nan inadvertent insult \u610f\u56f3\u3057\u306a\u3044\u7121\u793c
\n“In Western cultures, people tend to interpret silences longer than about half a second as disapproval, sanction or ostracism”
\ndisapproval \u4e0d\u540c\u610f
\nsanction \u5236\u88c1
\nostracism \u4ef2\u9593\u5916\u308c\uff08\u53e4\u4ee3\u30ae\u30ea\u30b7\u30e3\u306e\u3000\u9676\u7247\u8ffd\u653e\uff09
\n“Silence are not only okay in Finland, they are basic decorum.”
\ndecorum \u30c7\u300c\u30b3\u300d\u30fc\u30e9\u30e0\u3000level 11 = \u30a8\u30c1\u30b1\u30c3\u30c8 etiquette \u793c\u7bc0\u3000\u52d5\u4f5c\u306e\u7aef\u9e97\u3055
\n“people in quieter cultures may have greater fear of losing face or being humiliated, which makes them more reluctant to speak.”
\nlose face \u9762\u5b50\uff08\u30e1\u30f3\u30c4\uff09\u3092\u5931\u3046
\nhumiliate \u30d2\u30e5\u30fc\u300c\u30df\u300d\u308a\u30a8\u30a4\u30c8\u3000\u4fae\u8fb1\u3059\u308b
\nreluctant \u30ea\u300c\u3089\u300d\u30af\u30bf\u30f3\u30c8\u3000\uff5e\u3057\u305f\u304c\u3089\u306a\u3044
\n“Not listening is ripe for regret because once you let the opportunity slip away, you can never re-create themoment and often don’t realize what you missed until it’s too late”.
\nripe\u3000\u719f\u3057\u305f
\nregret\u3000\u5f8c\u6094
\nbooze \u304a\u9152\u3000\u3000a boozeless party \u304a\u9152\u306a\u3057\u306e\u30d1\u30fc\u30c6\u30a3\u3000\u3000on the booze \u5927\u9152\u3092\u98f2\u3093\u3067\u3000\u30d6\u30fc\u30ba<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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