\u91d1\u66dc\u65e5\u306e\u8aad\u66f8You are not listening \u306f11\u7ae0\uff08Listening to Yourself – The Voluble Inner Voice)\u300112\u7ae0(Supporting, Not Shifting, the Conversation)\u3067\u3059\u300211\u7ae0\u306f\u3001\u5fc3\u306e\u4e2d\u306e\u58f0\u306f\u81ea\u5df1\u80af\u5b9a\u7684\u306a\u58f0\u3068\u5426\u5b9a\u7684\u306a\u58f0\u304c\u3042\u308a\u3001\u6210\u529f\u3057\u3066\u3044\u308b\u4eba\u306f\u53b3\u3057\u3081\u306e\u58f0\u3092\u8074\u3044\u3066\u3044\u308b\u304c\u305d\u306e\u305f\u3081\u306b\u4e0d\u5e78\u306a\u3053\u3068\u3082\u3042\u308b\u3002\u305d\u3046\u3044\u3046\u4eba\u306f\u4ed6\u4eba\u306b\u3082\u53b3\u3057\u304f\u306a\u308b\u306e\u3067\u8074\u304f\u306e\u306f\u82e6\u624b\u3001\u3068\u3044\u3046\u6708\u4e26\u307f\u306a\u8a71\u3067\u3059\u3002\u4e00\u65b912\u7ae0\u306f\u3001\u30ab\u30a6\u30f3\u30bb\u30ea\u30f3\u30b0\u3067\u306e\u805e\u304d\u624b\u306e\u5fdc\u7b54\u306e\u3084\u308a\u65b9\u306b\u3064\u3044\u3066\u66f8\u3044\u3066\u3042\u308a\u3001\u305f\u3044\u3078\u3093\u305f\u3081\u306b\u306a\u308a\u307e\u3059\u3002
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\n\u30fb\u300c\u30b5\u30c3\u30ab\u30fc\u3082\u3046\u3084\u3081\u305f\u3044\u300d\u2192\u00d7\u300c\u30c0\u30e1\u3002\u30c1\u30fc\u30e0\u7cbe\u795e\u306f\uff1f\u300d\u00d7\u300c\u306a\u306b\u304b\u3042\u3063\u305f\u306e\uff1f\u30b3\u30fc\u30c1\u3068\u8a71\u3057\u3066\u307f\u308b\u300d\u3007\u300c\u305a\u3063\u3068\u305d\u3046\u304a\u3082\u3063\u3066\u3044\u305f\u306e\uff1f\u300d\u3007\u300c\u3084\u3081\u305f\u3089\u3069\u3046\u306a\u308b\u304b\u306a\uff1f\u300d
\n\u306e\u3088\u3046\u306a\u611f\u3058\u3067\u3059\u3002
\n\u30fb\u540c\u610f\u3092\u6c42\u3081\u308b\u8cea\u554f\u306f”shift response”\u305a\u3089\u305d\u3046\u3068\u3059\u308b\u5fdc\u7b54\u3001\u3067\u3088\u304f\u306a\u3044\u3002<\/p>\n
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\n“Disraeli was a brilliant orator but also a keen listener, solicitous and adept at steering conversations toward whomever he was with. It also made him a favorite of queen Victoria’s, whose undisguised preference for Diraeli over Gradstone. But it wasn’t just aristocracy and royalty to whom Disreali paid scrupulous attention. He was able to see a conservative voter in the workingman as a sculptor discerns “the angel in the marble”.
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\norator \u30aa\u300c\u30ec\u300d\u30a4\u30bf\u30fc\u3000\u96c4\u5f01\u5bb6
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\nundisguised preference \u96a0\u305d\u3046\u3068\u3082\u3057\u306a\u3044\u597d\u307f
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\nroyalty\u3000\u30ed\u30a4\u300c\u30e4\u300d\u308b\u30c6\u30a3\u3000\u738b\u653f
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\nconservative voter \u4fdd\u5b88\u515a\u306b\u6295\u7968\u3059\u308b\u4eba
\nsculptor \u5f6b\u523b\u5bb6
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\n“Being aware of someone’s troubles does not mean you need to fix them. … You can’t help someone salvage a ruined carrier, repair a broken marriage, or emerge from the depths of despair. Your answer to someone else’s deepest difficulties merely reflects what you would do if you were that person, which you are not.”
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\ndespair \u30c7\u30b9\u300c\u30da\u300d\u30a2\u3000\u7d76\u671b
\n“\u604b\u3092\u3057\u305f\u3051\u308c\u3070\u3084\u308b\u3079\u304d\u3053\u3068 To fall in love with anyone, do this.”\u3068\u3044\u304620\u5e74\u524d\u306e\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u5b9f\u9a13\u304b\u3089\u5c0e\u304b\u308c\u305f”internet meme”\u306e\u4e00\u90e8\u304c\u7d39\u4ecb\u3055\u308c\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002\u4e0b\u8a18\u306e\u8a18\u4e8b\u306b\u4f1a\u8a71\u306e\u984c\u6750\u306b\u3064\u304b\u304636\u9805\u76ee\u304c\u5168\u90e8\u3067\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u304c\u3001\u78ba\u304b\u306b\u4eba\u306e\u5185\u9762\u3092\u6df1\u304f\u77e5\u308b\u3053\u3068\u304c\u3067\u304d\u305d\u3046\u3067\u3001\u9762\u767d\u3044\u3067\u3059\u3002
\nhttps:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2015\/01\/09\/style\/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html
\nmeme \u30df\u30fc\u30e0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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