{"id":1635,"date":"2023-01-27T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-27T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"urn:uuid:d8d02843-610d-4b62-a792-704427c0ad67"},"modified":"2023-01-27T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2023-01-27T00:00:00","slug":"you-are-not-litening-8-di-9zhang-ting-kuli-toji-xing-toyumoa-di-10zhang-rasiohasonariteitozheng-zhi-jia-tozha-qi-shi-nogong-tong-dian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sekaiken.com\/?p=1635","title":{"rendered":"You are not litening \uff088\uff09\u7b2c9\u7ae0 \u8074\u304f\u529b\u3068\u5373\u8208\u3068\u30e6\u30fc\u30e2\u30a2, \u7b2c10\u7ae0 \u30e9\u30b8\u30aa\u30d1\u30fc\u30bd\u30ca\u30ea\u30c6\u30a3\u3068\u653f\u6cbb\u5bb6\u3068\u8a50\u6b3a\u5e2b\u306e\u5171\u901a\u70b9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u91d1\u66dc\u65e5\u306e\u8aad\u66f8You are not listening \u306f9\u7ae0\uff08improvisational listening &#8211; A funny thing happened on the way to work)\u300110\u7ae0(Conversational Sensitivity &#8211; What Terry Gross, LBJ, and con men have in common)<br \/>\n\u30fbGoogle\u306e\u7814\u7a76(Project Aristotle)\uff1a\u3046\u307e\u304f\u3044\u304f\u30c1\u30fc\u30e0\u3068\u3046\u307e\u304f\u3044\u304b\u306a\u3044\u30c1\u30fc\u30e0\u304c\u3042\u308b\u306e\u306f\u306a\u305c\u304b\uff1f3\u5e74\u306e\u7814\u7a76\u306e\u7d50\u679c\u3001\u69cb\u6210\u54e1\u304c\u305d\u308c\u305e\u308c\u540c\u7a0b\u5ea6\u306b\u767a\u8a00\u3057\u3066\u3044\u308b\u30c1\u30fc\u30e0\u304c\u4e00\u4f53\u611f\u304c\u3042\u308a\u751f\u7523\u7684\u306a\u30c1\u30fc\u30e0\u3067\u3042\u308b\u3053\u3068\u304c\u308f\u304b\u3063\u305f\u3002<br \/>\n\u30fb\u30e6\u30fc\u30e2\u30a2\u3092\u5171\u6709\u3059\u308b\u306e\u304c\u91cd\u8981\u3002\u304a\u4e92\u3044\u306e\u30ac\u30fc\u30c9\u3092\u4e0b\u3052\u308b\u3053\u3068\u304c\u3067\u304d\u308b\u3002<br \/>\n\u30fb\u30e9\u30b8\u30aa\u306e\u30d1\u30fc\u30bd\u30ca\u30ea\u30c6\u30a3\u306e\u30c1\u30fc\u30e0\u3001\u30ea\u30f3\u30c9\u30f3 B \u30b8\u30e7\u30f3\u30bd\u30f3\u5927\u7d71\u9818\uff08\u8aac\u660e\u306f\u306a\u3044\u3067\u3059\u304c\u526f\u984c\u306eLBJ\u306f\u3053\u306e\u4eba\u306e\u3053\u3068\u3067\u3057\u3087\u3046, \u8b70\u4f1a\u5de5\u4f5c\u306e\u5de7\u307f\u3055\u3067\u77e5\u3089\u308c\u308b\uff09\u3001\u8a50\u6b3a\u5e2b\u306e\u5171\u901a\u70b9\u306f\u3001\u4f1a\u8a71\u306b\u304a\u3051\u308b\u611f\u5ea6\u3067\u3042\u308b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u305f\u3081\u306b\u306a\u308a\u305d\u3046\u306a\u3068\u3053\u308d\u3092\u62fe\u3063\u3066\u307f\u307e\u3059\u3002<br \/>\nimprovisational \u30a4\u30f3\u30d7\u30ed\u30f4\u30a3\u300c\u30bc\u30fc\u300d\u30b7\u30e7\u30ca\u30eb\u3000\u5373\u8208\u306e\u3000level 17<br \/>\nimprovise \u300c\u30a4\u300d\u30f3\u30d7\u30ed\u30f4\u30a1\u30a4\u30ba\u3000\u5373\u8208\u3067\uff5e\u3059\u308b level 10<br \/>\nMoreover, listening is essential to being funny. A vast body of evidence indicates humor is an asset in forming and maintaining relationships both professionally and personally. \u8074\u304f\u529b\u306f\u53ef\u7b11\u3057\u3055\u306b\u672c\u8cea\u7684\u3067\u3042\u308b\u3002\u516c\u79c1\u306b\u308f\u305f\u308a\u3088\u3044\u4eba\u9593\u95a2\u4fc2\u3092\u4f5c\u308a\u7dad\u6301\u3059\u308b\u306b\u306f\u30e6\u30fc\u30e2\u30a2\u304c\u91cd\u8981\u306a\u8cc7\u7523\u306b\u306a\u308b\u3068\u3044\u3046\u975e\u5e38\u306b\u591a\u304f\u306e\u8a3c\u62e0\u304c\u3042\u308b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;When a guy is in a jam and lookin&rsquo; for money, it&rsquo;s my philosophy to give hope. If you say you can&rsquo;t do nothin&rsquo;, you are killin&rsquo; his hope. Everybody has to have hope. That&rsquo;s why most pople don&rsquo;t turn us in to the cops.  They keep hopin&rsquo; wer&rsquo;re for real&rdquo;. \u56f0\u3063\u3066\u3044\u308b\u5974\u304c\u3044\u3066\u91d1\u3092\u6b32\u3057\u304c\u3063\u3066\u3044\u308b\u3068\u3059\u308b\u3060\u308d\u3001\u671b\u307f\u3092\u4e0e\u3048\u3066\u3084\u308b\u306e\u304c\u4ffa\u306e\u54f2\u5b66\u3060\u306d\u3002\u3069\u3046\u3057\u3088\u3046\u3082\u306a\u3044\u3001\u3068\u3044\u3063\u305f\u3089\u5974\u306e\u671b\u307f\u3092\u6bba\u3059\u3053\u3068\u306b\u306a\u3063\u3061\u307e\u3046\u3002\u3060\u308c\u3067\u3082\u5e0c\u671b\u306f\u5fc5\u8981\u306a\u3093\u3060\u3002\u3060\u304b\u3089\u307b\u3068\u3093\u3069\u306e\u5974\u306f\u4ffa\u305f\u3061\uff08\u8a50\u6b3a\u5e2b\uff09\u3092\u30b5\u30c4\u306b\u7a81\u304d\u51fa\u3055\u306a\u3044\u306e\u3055\u3002\u307f\u3093\u306a\u4ffa\u305f\u3061\u304c\u672c\u7269\u3060\u3063\u305f\u3089\u3068\u9858\u3063\u3066\u308b\u3093\u3060\u3002<\/p>\n<p>a con man \u8a50\u6b3a\u5e2b<br \/>\na con artist \u82b8\u8853\u7684\u8a50\u6b3a\u5e2b<br \/>\ncon \u30b3\u30f3\u3000\u3060\u307e\u3059\u3001\u8a50\u6b3a\u3092\u50cd\u304f\u3000to make someone believe something false, usually so that that person will give you their money or possessions.<br \/>\ndeceive \u3060\u307e\u3059<br \/>\npossessions \u30dd\u300c\u30bc\u300d\u30c3\u30b7\u30e7\u30f3\u30ba\u3000\u6240\u6709\u7269<\/p>\n<p>con \u306b\u306f\u300c\u53cd\u5bfe\u610f\u898b\u300d\u3068\u3044\u3046\u610f\u5473\u3082\u3042\u308a\u307e\u3059\u3002\u3000pros and cons \u30d7\u30ed\u30ba \u30a2\u30f3\u30c9\u3000\u30b3\u30f3\u30ba\u3000\u8cdb\u6210\u610f\u898b\u3068\u53cd\u5bfe\u610f\u898b\u3001\u3088\u3044\u70b9\u3068\u60aa\u3044\u70b9\u3000We discussed the pros and cons of going to phD course.  \u535a\u58eb\u8ab2\u7a0b\u306b\u884c\u304f\u3053\u3068\u306e\u826f\u3044\u70b9\u3068\u60aa\u3044\u70b9\uff08\u2190\u3042\u308a\u307e\u305b\u3093\uff01\uff09\u3092\u8b70\u8ad6\u3057\u307e\u3057\u305f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Then you get linguistic relativity, also known as Sapir-Whorf hypothesis, which holds that a person&rsquo;s native language influences how they see or experience the world.\u3000\u6bcd\u8a9e\u306b\u3088\u3063\u3066\u611f\u3058\u65b9\u30fb\u8003\u3048\u65b9\u304c\u9055\u3046\u3001\u3068\u3044\u3046\u306e\u306f\u6b63\u3057\u3044\u3068\u601d\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/ja.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/%E8%A8%80%E8%AA%9E%E7%9A%84%E7%9B%B8%E5%AF%BE%E8%AB%96<br \/>\nlinguistic relativity \u308a\u30f3\u300c\u30ae\u300d\u30b9\u30c6\u30a3\u30c3\u30af\u3000\u8a00\u8a9e\u5b66\u7684\u76f8\u5bfe\u6027<br \/>\nhypothesis \u30cf\u30a4\u300c\u30dd\u300d\u305b\u30b7\u30b9\u3000\u4eee\u8aac<br \/>\nCultivating self-awareness is a matter of paying attentions to your emotions while in conversation and recognizing when your fears and sensitivities hijack your ability to listen well.  \u81ea\u5df1\u8a8d\u8b58\u80fd\u529b\u3092\u6db5\u990a\u3059\u308b\u306e\u306f\u4f1a\u8a71\u3057\u3066\u3044\u308b\u3068\u304d\u306b\u81ea\u5206\u306e\u611f\u60c5\u306b\u6ce8\u610f\u3092\u6255\u3044\u6050\u308c\u3084\u611f\u3058\u3084\u3059\u3055\u304c\u8074\u304f\u80fd\u529b\u3092\u4e57\u3063\u53d6\u3063\u3066\u3057\u307e\u3046\u5834\u9762\u306b\u6c17\u4ed8\u304f\u3053\u3068\u3067\u3042\u308b\u3002<br \/>\ncultivate \u683d\u57f9\u3059\u308b\u3001\u6db5\u990a\uff08\u304b\u3093\u3088\u3046\uff09\u3059\u308b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u91d1\u66dc\u65e5\u306e\u8aad\u66f8You are not listening \u306f9\u7ae0\uff08improvisational listening &#8211; 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