\u91d1\u66dc\u65e5\u306e\u8aad\u66f8You are not listening \u306f15\u7ae0\u3042\u308b\u306e\u3067\u3001\u5c11\u3057\u7aef\u6298\u308a\uff08\u306f\u3057\u3087\u308a\uff09\u307e\u3059\u3002\u4eca\u65e5\u306f5\u7ae0\uff08The tone-deaf response – Why people would rather talk to their dog\uff09\u30686\u7ae0\uff08Talking like a tortoise, thinking like a hare – The speech-thought differential\uff09\u3067\u3059\u3002
\n\u8a00\u3063\u3066\u3044\u308b\u3053\u3068\u306f\u5358\u7d14\u3067\u30015\u7ae0\u306f\u3001\u60a9\u307f\u3092\u6253\u3061\u660e\u3051\u3089\u308c\u305f\u6642\u306a\u3069\u6df1\u523b\u306a\u8a71\u984c\u306e\u3068\u304d\u306b\u306f\u805e\u304d\u624b\u306e\u53cd\u5fdc\u304c\u91cd\u8981\u3068\u3044\u3046\u3053\u3068\u3001\uff16\u7ae0\u306f\u805e\u304d\u624b\u306f\u306a\u308b\u3079\u304f\u8a71\u3055\u306a\u3044\u3067\u8003\u3048\u306a\u304c\u3089\u805e\u304f\u3053\u3068\u3001\u3067\u3059\u3002\u8a69\u306e\u5f15\u7528\u3001\u6280\u8853\u7684\u306a\u7528\u8a9e\u3001\u54f2\u5b66\u7684\u306a\u7528\u8a9e\u304c\u3057\u3070\u3057\u3070\u4f7f\u308f\u308c\u3066\u3044\u3066\u3001\u8457\u8005\u306e\u611f\u6027\u306f\u3044\u308d\u3044\u308d\u306a\u8aad\u8005\u306b\u5408\u3046\u3060\u308d\u3046\u306a\u3068\u601d\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002\u9762\u767d\u3044\u4f8b\u304c\u305f\u304f\u3055\u3093\u8f09\u3063\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u304c\u3001\u4eca\u65e5\u306f\u82f1\u8a9e\u306e\u8868\u73fe\u3092\u62fe\u3063\u3066\u3044\u304d\u307e\u3057\u3087\u3046\u3002<\/p>\n
tone-deaf = \u97f3\u75f4\u3000(LDOCE) unable to hear the difference between different musical notes
\n tone-deaf response \u306f\u300c\u305a\u308c\u305f\u53cd\u5fdc\u300d\u304f\u3089\u3044\u3067\u3057\u3087\u3046\u304b\uff1f
\n tortoise \u300c\u30c8\u300d\u30fc\u30bf\u30b9\u3000\u306f\u30ea\u30af\u30ac\u30e1\u3067\u3059\u3002turtle\u3000\u300c\u30bf\u300d\u30fc\u30c8\u308b\u3000\u306f\u30a6\u30df\u30ac\u30e1\u3002
\n hare \u30d8\u30a2\u3000\u306f\u91ce\u30a6\u30b5\u30ae\u3002\u3000rabbit\u306f\u30a2\u30ca\u30a6\u30b5\u30ae\u3060\u305d\u3046\u3067\u3059\u30026\u7ae0\u306e\u984c\u306f\u3001\u30a6\u30b5\u30ae\u3068\u30ab\u30e1\u3067\u3059\u306d\u3002\u540c\u69d8\u306b\u4f7f\u3046\u3088\u3046\u3067\u3059\u3002
\n“The world is easier to navigate if you remember that people are governed by emotions, acting more often out of jealousy, pride, shame, desire, fear, or vanity than dispassionate logic.”
\n vanity \u865a\u98fe
\n“When you leave a conversation, ask yourself, What did I just learn about the person? What was most concerning to that person today? How did that person feel about what we were talking about? If you cannot answer those questions, you probably need to work on your listening.”
\n work on = to try very hard to improve or achieve something \u300c\u3053\u308c\u3089\u306e\u8cea\u554f\u306b\u7b54\u3048\u3089\u308c\u306a\u3044\u306a\u3089\u3001\u805e\u304f\u3053\u3068\u306e\u4fee\u884c\u304c\u5fc5\u8981\u3067\u3059\u300d
\n“To be a good listener means using your available bandwidth not to take mental side trips but rather to double down on your efforts to understand and intuit what some one is saying.” \u3053\u308c\u306f\u8033\u304c\u75db\u3044\u3067\u3059\u306d\u3002
\n bandwidth \u5e2f\u57df
\n side trips \u5bc4\u308a\u9053
\n intuit = \u611f\u899a\u3067\u308f\u304b\u308b\u3000to know or guess something because of a feeling you have, rather than because of facts you know
\n intuition \u30a4\u30f3\u30c6\u30e5\u300c\u30a4\u300d\u30b7\u30e7\u30f3\u3000\u76f4\u611f\u3000<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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